What are you free from?  Are you free from any authority figures around you?  Not likely.  Can you do ANYTHING you want (within your ability, of course)?  Sure.  But expect some of those things to bring responses or consequences.

For the purpose of this discussion the question is, Does God make us do what he wants, or does he give us the authority to really choose — even if it means to reject him — FOREVER?   

I think that God would have us answer our own question by looking within our own world.  Our children are born to us.  We want them to grow to be responsible adults.  We want them to love us from within themselves, not from anything we’ve made them do, or from any form of bribery or coercion.  Unfortunately, that doesn’t always happen.  In spite of all of our best efforts, our children, like us, will often make bad choices in life, resulting in unlovely behavior.  But we would still desire for them to reach full perfection in character and spirit.

What we fail to consider, however, is that our child is God’s child, and God isn’t done with him yet.  Even with our own imperfections, we don’t just want our children to do right, we want them to WANT to do right — of their own free will.  Doesn’t it make sense to say that that’s what God wants of his children also?  So how does he do it?

I believe that children are born with perfect spirits.  What happens after birth is a whole ‘nuther story.  I’m more and more convinced that what they are exposed to throughout life develops their character.  (I wouldn’t be surprised if there’s some womb exposure, too.)

The fact of the matter is that God made us to be like himself.  That’s our core being.  Without the negative influences, that’s who we will be.  The testing given through those influences is the basis of free will.  We can choose wrong, but who we really are inside will never be completely satisfied with those choices.

Why he created this scenario is truly a mystery.  It’s like asking why Mr. and Mrs. God decided to just have one son.  And just where is Mrs. God, by the way?

God is love.  He created us in love.  We are love.  When all else is burned away, love remains.  That’s who we really are.  The real us would NEVER reject our creator.  He made us.  Then he makes us to see who we really are and who we will be as his holy children.