The title is clever.  The tune is catchy.  And it annoys my grandson whenever I sing it repeatedly.  I stop whenever I get the expected response from him, that being, “Ah-h-h-h-h!”

The animal kingdom may have their own language with grunts and growls, but I’m guessing that it doesn’t come close to the human language.  Maybe because we exhibit more emotion and determination. Domesticated animals respond to voice commands because of conditioning and rewards.  We never have a discussion with them regarding their behavior; if so, it would be all one-sided.

My native tongue, English, is replete with innuendos and double-entendres, making if difficult to understand the true intent, let alone try to form a response.  Words are powerful.  Consider the children’s rhyme:

Sticks and stones may break my bones,
But words will never hurt me.

Not true.  Words spoken or written can generate a number of feelings inside of us.  I’ll be the first to admit that in my own life I am often affected by words sent my way.  I must check myself quickly in order not to respond in haste.  I also notice how many times I have misunderstood comments.  On many an occasion I find later that they were not directed toward me, were not meant in the way that I took them, or were certainly not worth me being worked up about.

My wife says I’m a ponderer, and she’s right.  When I receive a negative comment or response from someone, I can mull it over for hours, or even days, before I’m willing to let it go.  On the other hand I can receive a kind remark from someone I don’t generally care for, and it’s as if they were never unkind to me.  Someone that I am confident is an untruthful person can so embellish a statement that I am eager and willing to consider that they are being honest with me.  Along with being a ponderer, I seem to be a responder-er.

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Matthew 10:7  The kingdom of heaven is near.

Mark 1:15  The kingdom of God is near.

A friend and I were recently discussing where we are in relation to our walk with Christ and our relationship with God.  We know we live in this world, which is made up of kingdoms.  They may be run by dictators, presidents, congresses or parliaments, but it is a kingdom nonetheless.  Like it or not, we are subjects of them.

Jesus introduced the concept of a new kingdom, or at least a different kingdom.  The gospel writer Matthew exclusively quoted Jesus as saying the kingdom of heaven, while the other gospels refer to the kingdom of God.  Jesus prayed to God, “your kingdom come, your will be done.” (Matthew 6:10)  He once told the Pharisees, “The kingdom of God is within you.” (Luke 17:21)  The kingdom of God was inside the Pharisees? Really?  Look it up. When questioned by Pontius Pilate, Jesus responded with, “My kingdom is not of this world.”  (John 18:36)

So, do we have a kingdom here, a kingdom there (heaven), or a kingdom everywhere?

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I can’t take credit for the title; it was on a church sign.  You gotta love those church signs!  It made me chuckle. Then it made me think.

Usually that type of phrase is associated with negativity.  Like new day, same old stuff. We have a new year, but we’re stuck with the same old God.  I know that’s not how the church meant it.

They anticipate the New Year to bring change, both good and bad.  They foresee trouble on a global scale.  Unrest, hatred, ugliness.  But, thank God, he never changes.  His promises are sure.  He never goes back on his word. When he makes a resolution, he keeps it.

I do find comfort in the fact that God is somewhat predictable, as best as we can determine.  I mean, nobody wants God to go postal on us.  When those around us become untrustworthy, he remains faithful and true.

But may I be so bold as to say that I might just advocate a new year, different God?

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I can’t keep them.

Wow, that was easy!  Now, what do I do with the rest of the article?

It’s true; I can’t keep them.  I never could figure out resolutions anyway.  If you could keep them, you wouldn’t need them.  Your self-discipline would help you to order your life and ensure that you do the right things daily.

Resolutions are really promises that you hope to keep.  Promises, however, can be difficult if circumstances change.  I promise that I will love and honor you forever. Then she (or he) gets fat, or worse, begins to treat you horribly. They don’t understand you, but, strangely enough, the co-worker does.  And he (or she) smells better, or looks better, and you can imagine what life would be like with them.

The Bible puts heavy duty responsibility on promises, especially promises to God.  Failing to keep your promise to God brings a curse.  Bad things will happen to you.  So, just don’t promise, right?  But then you might be accused of being apathetic.

A resolution usually involves a life-changing decision, like losing weight, don’t bite your nails, don’t waste so much time playing computer games or watching TV.  The list is endless.

New Years resolutions fail for two reasons.

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